You ever find yourself stumped as to what word to use when describing someone? Is it African American or black? Is it Oriental or Asian or Asian American? Can I call this person short or is it ‘vertically challenged’ now?
In situations like these, you find yourself between a rock and a hard place – you don’t want to offend (and you certainly don’t want to get your ass kicked for pissing off the wrong person) but you can’t accurately describe someone without using racial or gendered modifiers. You can’t tell that joke you that made you laugh because it’s not “PC”.* You can’t speak your mind because you’re straight-jacketed by this social contract.
I dislike “political correctness” because it reaffirms the assumption that if it is racial then it is racist. If it is gendered, it is sexist. It doesn’t matter that someone is just using an adjective to describe a characteristic; the mere acknowledgment of the characteristic, the pointing out of “difference”, is racism/sexism/homophobia/whatever-ism.
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For certain crimes, there is an element called mens rea which looks into the state of mind of the actor. Was the act intentional or negligent? Was it planned and malicious or was it just an accident? Mens rea is important as it can decide whether someone is convicted of first degree murder or involuntary manslaughter.
I mention mens rea because it provides the best analogy of how I approach racism. It helps me distinguish between a fight worth fighting from one that is merely cosmetic. I look at a situation and ask myself, essentially, “Is this something I should be concerned about?”
Take for example last month’s uproar about Senator Harry Reid’s comment that Obama has “no Negro dialect, unless he wanted to have one.” After reading a few articles about it, I brushed it off as negligent (well, actually stupid). I did not see a malicious intent in Reid’s comment. I didn’t read it as Reid purposely being racist against blacks or then-candidate Obama. I realize there is an interpretation of the comment that leads to the conclusion that Reid implicitly believes that the “Negro dialect” is uncouth and would hinder a Presidential candidate from winning the Presidency. But hey – I believe it’s true that not all manners of speech are treated equal. I do not expect a candidate that only speaks in Hawaiian pidgin to win many votes. But I digress. I didn’t see a racial intent behind Reid’s words, I just saw him saying “Obama appeals to all audiences”, much like news anchors.
The problem with political correctness is that it treats this kind of negligent statement the same as fire-hosing Civil Rights protesters. The former makes me face-palm at the inanity, the latter makes me want to actually do something to change it. Doling out the death penalty for a two-buck crime just takes away from actual progress. Keep your cosmetic hang-ups to yourself, I rather work towards a real solution, kthxbai.
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What really gets to me about political correctness is the hypocrisy of it all. You don’t want people to be racist? Stop being racist yourself. Do not hide behind your “protected” status when you say seriously say “nigger” every third word. Do not tell me how you assume every white guy that dates an Asian girl has an “Asian fetish” and then proceed to hiss and boo at them, loud enough for them to hear your displeasure.**
I make politically incorrect jokes at the expense of my race and sex. I am fully aware that I am allowed to make these types of jokes because of my race and my sex; I am given a free pass. But why am I given this free pass? I have never felt that I, personally, was denied something because of my race or sex. Why is it not questioned more by the politically correct as to the existence of this double standard?
“An individual who breaks a law that conscience tells him is unjust, and who willingly accepts the penalty of imprisonment in order to arouse the conscience of the community over its injustice, is in reality expressing the highest respect for the law.”
~ Martin Luther King, Jr.
I make politically incorrect jokes ironically, to point out this hypocrisy that I see in it all.*** I don’t make jokes (or say anything) with the purpose to belittle someone. I don’t judge someone based on their skin color, but based on their merits, the “content of their character” as it were. I admit that I hold certain stereotypes in my head, especially those concerning Asian mothers, because there is some truth to it. But I know it’s not applicable to every individual and I don’t write off everyone I meet based on stereotypes. This is where the mens rea requirement for racism comes in for me, and I believe it’s an important distinction when looking at racism.
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